{"id":73612,"date":"2017-10-13T08:30:00","date_gmt":"2017-10-13T06:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mobserver.co.za\/73612\/my-kind-is-dood\/"},"modified":"2017-10-13T08:49:47","modified_gmt":"2017-10-13T06:49:47","slug":"my-kind-is-dood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/develop.citizen.co.za\/middelburg-observer\/news-headlines\/2017\/10\/13\/my-kind-is-dood\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018My kind is dood\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Om ouers in hierdie ondraaglike pynpad by te staan, word daar op 9 November om 18:30 \u2019n spesiale praatjie vir gesinne aangebied by die Corpus Christi gemeente.<\/p>\n<p>Die spreker is \u2019n pa wat self sy kind verloor het deur selfmoord. Dr. Henk Gous was \u2019n leraar van die <a href=\"https:\/\/www.quellerina.co.za\/\" target=\"_blank\">NG Kerk Quellerina<\/a> in Roodepoort, Gauteng (voorheen studenteleraar in PUK-Kandelaar in Potchefstroom, en leraar in Vanderbijlpark-Suid).<\/p>\n<p>Hy dien op \u2019n wye gebied in die NG Kerk as leier, waaronder voorheen Moderator van die Sinode van Wes-Transvaal, voorsitter van die Algemene Jeugkommissie en ondervoorsitter van die Kuratorium van die Teologiese Fakulteit by UP.<\/p>\n<p>Naas jeugwerk is pastoraat en prediking fokuspunte in sy bediening. Sy sportsoorte is fietsry en stap, met natuur en avontuur as ander stokperdjies.<\/p>\n<p>Sy vrou, dr Ansie Gous, is \u2019n kliniese sielkundige.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Gous het na die dood van sy sestienarige dogter, Janie, die boek, \u201cOm die ondraaglike te dra\u201d geskryf na aanleiding van die worsteling en smart wat hy self ervaar het.<\/p>\n<p>In die boek help hy ander gesinne om hul eie smart aan God oor te gee.<\/p>\n<p>Deur die boek word lesers gewys dat sterk en gelowige mense ook soms swak is en mag huil.<\/p>\n<p>Hy fokus in die boek op veral depressie, selfmoord en rou smart.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Gous is ook die skrywer van \u201cStres in die werkplek\u201d en \u201cwat maak jou gelukkig.<\/p>\n<p>Vir enige navrae rakende die geleentheid, bel Tobie van den Bergh (redakteur, Middelburg Observer) by 013 243 1434.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Die ondraaglikste pyn is om jou kind aan die dood af te staan.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1848,"featured_media":73613,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"hasGravity":false,"cxt_article_byline":"Tobie van den Bergh","cxt_disable_google_ads":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,2],"tags":[8168,8166,8164,8170,8167,8172,8171,8169,8165],"class_list":["post-73612","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-local-news","category-news-headlines","tag-henk-gous","tag-hoe-dra-jy-n-kind-se-dood","tag-kind-dood","tag-kliniese-sielkundige","tag-ng","tag-ondersteuning","tag-ondersteuning-vir-ouers-wat-n-kind-aan-die-dood-afgestaan-het","tag-puk-kandelaar","tag-wanneer-word-dit-beter"],"category_labels":{"Category":"News","SubCategory":"Local news"},"tag_labels":["Henk Gous","Hoe dra jy 'n kind se dood","kind dood","kliniese sielkundige","NG","ondersteuning","ondersteuning vir ouers wat 'n kind aan die dood afgestaan het","Puk kandelaar","wanneer word dit beter?"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/develop.citizen.co.za\/middelburg-observer\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/73612","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/develop.citizen.co.za\/middelburg-observer\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/develop.citizen.co.za\/middelburg-observer\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.citizen.co.za\/middelburg-observer\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1848"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.citizen.co.za\/middelburg-observer\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=73612"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/develop.citizen.co.za\/middelburg-observer\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/73612\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.citizen.co.za\/middelburg-observer\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/73613"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/develop.citizen.co.za\/middelburg-observer\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=73612"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.citizen.co.za\/middelburg-observer\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=73612"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/develop.citizen.co.za\/middelburg-observer\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=73612"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}