\u201cThere is, of course, nothing wrong with sharing gifts with our loved ones, but there is a problem when our expectations of material gifts are used to define our joy, or lack of it.<\/p>\n
\u201cThere is a problem when families feel that they have no choice but to express their love by overspending on their budgets and creating unimaginable stress and anxiety in the aftermath.\u201d<\/p>
Isn\u2019t it time that we redefine our understanding of what joy is and how we can experience it, with or without a pile of expensive gifts under the tree?<\/p>\n
Cindy first takes a quick look at what joy is not:<\/strong> \u2022 A thing that can be bought: Rather it is an emotion that can be experienced in a moment. Joy cannot be created by parenting from a point of guilt either. Many parents feel guilty about their parenting and try and buy retribution. \u2022 Giving is the greatest gift: The very best way to experience joy is to give it to someone else. Why not work as a family to assist someone in need? Discuss ideas together. You can get really creative and make some simple items or food parcels to give away. Teach your children to give from their heart. There truly is no greater joy.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n ALSO READ:<\/span><\/p>\n Children enjoy a day of Christmas spoils<\/a><\/p>\n Festive fun and the Majestic Night Market<\/a><\/p>\n \n \u2022 Be selfless: Choose an organisation that looks for volunteers and decide to do something as a family to contribute. There are great moments of joy in being in service of those less fortunate than ourselves.<\/p>\n \u2022 Have a budget limit on gift buying: Focus, rather, on finding gifts that have special meaning to the receiver. This can be loads of fun when you get creative and it most often means more than a quick-have-to-buy gift ever will.<\/p>\n \u2022 Create memories: Look for opportunities to share experiences rather than expensive gifts. Organise a picnic in the park or a day at the beach. You can announce your experience-gift in a homemade card. Making beautiful memories does not have to cost a lot of money, but they will last a lifetime.<\/p>\n \u2022 Love is all you need: Remember that there is nothing in this world that one could buy that will replace the love of a family. Don\u2019t sweat the small stuff – life is too short for that. Notice and acknowledge one another, express gratitude for each other, respect yourself so that you respect others and look out for those little moments of joy.<\/p>\n \u2022 Teach your children to have an attitude of gratitude: They may not have all the material things that they wish for, but they will have many, many things to be grateful for.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Hav<\/strong>e a story?<\/strong><\/p>\n Contact the newsroom by emailing: Melissa Hart (Editor)\u00a0<\/span>germistoncitynews@caxton.co.za,<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>Leigh Hodgson (News Editor)\u00a0<\/span>leighh@caxton.co.za\u00a0<\/a><\/strong>or Ashley Kiley (Journalist)\u00a0ashleyk@caxton.co.za.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Also follow us on:<\/p>\n
\n\u2022 A once-achieved-forever-experience: Nobody feels happy or joyful all of the time. We need to create moments in time in which joy can be experienced. These moments need to be recognised and acknowledged to be felt and appreciated.<\/p>\n
\nShe offers simple ideas guaranteed to create moments of joy this Christmas:<\/p>\n
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