{"id":225084,"date":"2019-12-03T10:35:30","date_gmt":"2019-12-03T08:35:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/germistoncitynews.co.za\/?p=225084"},"modified":"2019-12-03T10:35:37","modified_gmt":"2019-12-03T08:35:37","slug":"dont-sweat-small-talk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/develop.citizen.co.za\/germiston-city-news\/news-headlines\/2019\/12\/03\/dont-sweat-small-talk\/","title":{"rendered":"Don\u2019t sweat the small talk!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Do you Uber? And if you do\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.uber.com\/en-ZA\/cities\/johannesburg\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Uber<\/a>, do you chat to the driver?<\/p>\n<p>Since joining South Africa in 2013, Uber has grown exponentially. In 2017, it was <a href=\"https:\/\/www.engineeringnews.co.za\/article\/uber-reaches-almost-1-million-users-in-sa-2017-11-09\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">reported<\/a> that they reached almost 1 million drivers in SA, so it may be safe to say that the number has grown even further in 2019.<\/p><div class=\"stream-item stream-item-in-post stream-item-inline-post aligncenter\"><\/div>\n<p>Not everybody is\u00a0for small talk or is\u00a0the type\u00a0to launch\u00a0into full-on conversations with everyone they meet. After all, we were raised to not talk to strangers. But if you are going to be spending a good 20 minutes or more with someone, you may want to break the ice\u00a0a bit \u2013 especially if you\u2019re stuck in traffic!<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019ve put together a couple of ways you can start conversations with your driver which may result in you not even realising that your trip has passed by quicker than you thought. We also get that\u00a0not everybody\u00a0<strong>wants<\/strong>\u00a0to chat either (see the end of the article for body language cues that your driver will &#8211; most likely &#8211; respect)!<\/p><div class=\"stream-item stream-item-in-post stream-item-inline-post aligncenter\"><\/div>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u201cWhat did you think of the Springbok\u2019s performance in the World Cup?\u201d<br \/>\n<\/strong>With many of us still on a \u2018high\u2019 from being the ultimate rugby champions in the World Cup this year, we\u2019re sure your Uber driver has lots to say! Sport is a topic that most people are passionate about and while conversations regarding sports may feel a little superficial, they are an easy way to get the conversation going!<\/li>\n<li><strong>\u201cWhat\u2019s the strangest passenger you\u2019ve ever had?\u201d\u00a0<\/strong>Oh yes, we want to know it all! One way to get beyond small talk\u00a0and make full use of the time\u00a0is to ask open-ended questions. Ask for stories, not answers!\u00a0 Aim for questions that invite people to tell stories, rather than give bland, one-word answers.<\/li>\n<li><strong>\u201cHow long have you been an Uber driver?\u201d\u00a0<\/strong>Hey, it\u2019s the equivalent of the age-old advice to ask \u201cSo, what do you do\u201d at cocktail parties. And it often leads to other topics of conversation \u2013 such as what the driver did before they became an Uber driver.<\/li>\n<li><strong>\u201cWho are you insured with?\u201d<\/strong>Not something you\u2019d\u00a0usually\u00a0think about asking your driver, but it can result in some pretty interesting answers. And if you\u2019re a\u00a0MiWay\u00a0client, you may discover that you\u2019ve got something in common! Yup,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.miway.co.za\/business-insurance\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">MiWay\u00a0Business Insurance<\/a> covers Uber drivers too.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Bonus: A\u00a0few body\u00a0<\/strong><strong>language<\/strong><strong>\u00a0cues for those who don\u2019t enjoy chit-chat.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you get into the vehicle, sit in the back seat. Use visual cues like closing your eyes, putting on your earphones, or mention that you\u2019ve had a long day and really don\u2019t want to talk.\u00a0Likewise \u2013 be aware that your driver may also not be in the mood to chat \u2013 and respect that!<\/p>\n<p>Starting a conversation with your Uber driver is about more than just passing the time to the end of your trip, you could end up\u00a0learning more about people living in the world around you. You may even form useful connections \u2013 or make a new friend!<\/p>\n<p><em>MiWay is a licensed insurer &amp; FSP 33970. 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