\u201cIf the move is due to the family upgrading to a larger home or a better neighbourhood, there will be far less emotional upheaval than if the reason for the move is because of a loss of income or the loss of a family member.<\/p>\n
\u201cIf a family is downgrading, the children will often pick up on the stress felt by the parents.<\/p>
\u201cParents in this situation will have to approach the move very cautiously to ensure their child\u2019s emotional wellbeing,\u201d said Adrian Goslett, regional director and CEO of RE\/MAX of Southern Africa.<\/p>\n
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ALSO READ:<\/span><\/p>\n Signs that your garden is too small for your dog<\/a><\/p>\n Get your car summer-ready now<\/a><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Here are some tips on how parents can make the transition easier for their children:<\/strong><\/p>\n Leading up to the move<\/strong><\/p>\n Children will have a higher level of anxiety if they feel as if something is going on and they are not fully aware of the details, so parents should make children aware of the move as early into the process as possible as this will give them time to get used to the idea. In some instances, the children might think that moving will mean leaving their favourite things behind, so parents should ensure that the children know that their beloved toys and pets are coming along.\u00a0Parents can also emphasise aspects that will not change during or after the move, such as play schedules, bedtimes or the fact that they have a loving family that supports them.<\/p>\n During the moving process<\/strong><\/p>\n Allow the children to say goodbye to neighbours and their friends, as well as some of their favourite local places such as the park. Remind them that they will still be able to visit those friends or places at another time in the future. During the move (and depending on the age of the child), get the child involved in the moving process so that they feel included in the change.<\/p>\n In the new home<\/strong> \u201cThroughout the moving process, it is important that children know that their parents are listening and paying attention to their emotions and needs.<\/p>\n \u201cParents could involve their children in the house hunt and allow them to share their opinions on the homes they\u2019ve gone to view.<\/p>\n \u201cFeeling a part of the journey can help lower anxiety and help children get on board with the decision,\u201d Goslett said.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Hav<\/strong>e a story?<\/strong><\/p>\n Contact the newsroom by emailing: Melissa Hart (Editor)\u00a0<\/span>germistoncitynews@caxton.co.za<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>or Leigh Hodgson (News Editor)\u00a0<\/span>leighh@caxton.co.za.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Also follow us on:<\/p>\n
\nSetting up the children\u2019s bedroom first will establish an area in the home that is familiar and safe. Of course, it will still take time to adjust to the new surroundings. Get the children excited about their new neighbourhood by taking them around the new area and explore the nearby parks and shops. Getting plugged into the community will also help make it feel like home far quicker. Sign your children up for a local playgroup or neighbourhood sports club.<\/p>\n
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