Help Benoni police find these missing people<\/a><\/p>\n She was 20 years old at the time.<\/p> The South African Community Crime Watch has been instrumental in the \u2018cold case\u2019 being reopened.<\/p>\n The non-profit organisation will create awareness of the disappearance of Reid and investigate the case, alongside the police.<\/p>\n Speaking to the City Times, Reid\u2019s sister Janetta Joao, said her sibling started dating a man whom she met in Boksburg. He owned a business next to the shop where she worked.<\/p>\n They later got engaged and moved to Turffontein.<\/p>\n Joao said the fiance dropped her sister off at her mother\u2019s Boksburg home one night.<\/p>\n It was later discovered that her sister and partner were using drugs.<\/p>\n \u201cWe put her in a rehabilitation centre and she came out just before Christmas in 1999,\u201d said Joao, who lives in Boksburg.<\/p>\n \u201cEverything was going well and we spent Christmas together.\u201d<\/p>\n On January 27, Reid\u2019s mother who is also also named Janetta, left her daughter to sleep in the flat while she went grocery shopping.<\/p>\n \u201cWhen I got there at about lunchtime to have lunch with my mom, there was no one at home,\u201d Joao said.<\/p>\n \u201cSo I went in and I waited for my mom.<\/p>\n \u201cWhen my mom came home she asked where my sister was, and I said I thought she was with her because there was no one there.\u201d<\/p>\n The mother and sister thought Reid may have gone to her father, Nick Reid, with whom they had no contact.<\/p>\n Only a year later did they report Reid missing, after the pair bumped into the father who said he hadn\u2019t seen his daughter in a year.<\/p>\n \u201cThen it completely sunk in,\u201d said Joao, adding: \u201cWe were really so stupid.\u201d<\/p>\n She said they were ignorant and did not know what to do when somebody goes missing.<\/p>\n In 2003, Reid called her aunt (Betty Kruger) and asked to speak to her.<\/p>\n Her uncle Barney Kruger said she was not there. Reid dropped the call.<\/p>\n \u201cShe then called a little bit later and asked if she could speak to my aunt, and my uncle said: \u2018If you tell me who it is, I\u2019ll tell you what happened.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n The missing woman identified herself.<\/p>\n Joao\u2019s uncle said: \u201cYour mom is looking for you, your sister is looking for you, they are very worried and your aunt has passed away.\u201d<\/p>\n Joao said: \u201cShe cried a little bit and asked how I was, if I was married, if I had kids, and they spoke a little bit, and when he hung up, he phoned my mom. My mom called me at work and I rushed to get my mom from work.\u201d<\/p>\n During this time, Reid had called her mother\u2019s work and asked to speak to her, but she was not in, something Joao still regrets to this day.<\/p>\n Joao said she believes her sister tried to speak to their aunt as she mentioned that she was pregnant with twins.<\/p>\n \u201cI think that was the reason she called my aunt, because my aunt had twins.\u201d<\/p>\n A while later, Reid phoned another aunt, Hester Wright, at work. She told her that she had a miscarriage and that she was at the Waterfront in Cape Town.<\/p>\n That is the last the family heard of Reid.<\/p>\n Emotional and physical heartache<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI have searched every Desiree Reid on Facebook, I have sent friend requests to everyone with that name, I have sent messages to all of them, saying: \u2018If it is you and you don\u2019t want to see us, it\u2019s fine, but I have never had any response,\u201d said Joao.<\/p>\n They have also run searches at home affairs, and done ID, Fica and Rica checks.<\/p>\n The uncertainty has tormented Joao and her mother, with her mother\u2019s physical and mental health taking a toll.<\/p>\n The mother has suffered several breakdowns and was diagnosed with breast cancer, which resulted in her having a double mastectomy.<\/p>\n \u201cThe psychiatrist dealing with my mom said that we must have a funeral,\u201d said Joao. Really? Could you have a funeral? You know there is no body in that casket, could you have a funeral? You can have a funeral, but tomorrow when you lay in your bed you will know there was nothing in that casket.\u201d<\/p>\n Joao said searching for her sister has ruled her life for the past 17 years.<\/p>\n She hung onto a job for 18 years because she knew that if her sister wanted to make contact, she would know where she worked.<\/p>\n Her mother now works at the company after Joao left at the end of last year.<\/p>\n She said her mother works there to keep busy and to keep the chance alive that if Reid wanted to make contact, she would call the business.<\/p>\n Before moving from their Boksburg home, the mother would place a note on the door every time she left the premises, which read: \u201cHi, Desiree, if you come home, please stay, or just leave us a note saying that you are still okay. Don\u2019t leave without letting us know you are okay.\u201d<\/p>\n The mother and daughter light a candle every year on Reid\u2019s birthday, on July 24.<\/p>\n Negative reaction from the public<\/strong><\/p>\n Joao said many people on social media have trivialised Reid\u2019s life, citing her addiction to drugs as reason for her disappearance.<\/p>\n \u201cWe are people who love her,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n \u201cIt does not take our pain away because she made a mistake to do drugs.<\/p>\n \u201cIt does not make it easier for us.<\/p>\n \u201cPeople make mistakes.\u201d<\/p>\n Where do begin searching<\/p>\n Wendy Pascoe of the South African Community Crime Watch will investigate the case.<\/p>\n She said Interpol will be notified and they will investigate the possibility of Reid being a victim human trafficking.<\/p>\n She will also interview people of interest who were close to Reid.<\/p>\n A nine-year-old\u2019s letter to her aunt<\/strong><\/p>\n Joao\u2019s daughter, Alyssa Joao, recently wrote a letter to her missing aunt.<\/p>\n This is what she wrote: \u201cDear, Desiree. Now that you\u2019re gone, I don\u2019t know what to do, but I\u2019ll tell the truth: we really miss you. I will tell you a story now that is it true, but before I do, I must tell you that we will always love you. We really do care for you, please believe me and know that it is true. 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